Heavy Is The Crown
The title of King or Queen comes with huge responsibility. As “royality” are you really respectful, responsible and reasonable to wear such a crown? When you chose the one to sit to your right or left, did you choose wisely? No worries many dynasties have fallen and risen. Make it do what it do now that you’ve done what you’ve done.
By Sabrina Michelle
3/3/20242 min read
Full Disclaimer: The four paragraphs below were written 6-13-2018 during a time I was in a weird but free mind space. Becoming educated involves far more than books, lectures and higher education, one must immerse into the dirtiest of knowledge. This Black woman flipped “trophy wife” then added “educated’ for these educational moments! Bringing a perspective from experience lived from pain shared and witnessed in real time.
“You can’t put a crown on a clown and expect a KING!”-Unknown. I find it funny that I heard this quote because I just could not find the right words for these type of humans. THEEDUCATEDTROPHYWIFE takes pride in not verbally beating down anyone, there’s no growth in such negativity. By having strong figures in my life I was taught neutrality.
Most humans detest parents that neglect their children because their neglect spills into our communities by way of disrespect, anger, hate, violent behavior, bullying, destruction, criminal activity, and just a messy mess. Now, not all children take part in these types of acts. If they are blessed the present parent’s unwavering strength and love can pull them through.
We all know the relative or a story of a single parent carrying the load and having great children. But at what cost? THEEDUCATEDTROPHYWIFE blogged about my father on 2/27/18 titled I Love Daddy. It gives a peep into my relationship with my father from prison. Nothing and no one changed my reality. Children NEED their fathers!
“See kings lose crowns but teachers stay intelligent”-K.R.S.-ONE. Parents are the 1st teachers in a child’s life, there’s no financial cost in that. Are you mad you put a crown on a clown (female or male)? Well.... Please get over it! Ha! Give fathers their RIGHT to teach their children! No one should alter a child’s view of their fathers.
Today the world is much different in a short period of time. We now have more social media distractions, satire, exposure, greed, ass shaking, bullying, mistreatment and less reading. From my observations I’m seeing more division than ever between people especially in social media. Because of this the clown's coming out of the clown car in hundreds at a time. Mama’s and Daddy’s are being transparent about the lack of knowledge before deciding to become a parent.
This choice may be costly not only to the child about the parent as well. Over the last century in the Black community which is about 14% of the United States population the family structure has been broken by several factors. Economic inequality, racism, imprisonment, violence, lack of education and opportunities all contribute towards the fractured Black family structure. None of this is listed in this article. https://jbhe.com/2022/11/the-significant-racial-gap-in-marriage-rates-in-the-united-states/#:~:text=New%20data%20from%20the%20U.S.,percent%20of%20the%20Black%20populationInformation may be incorrect based on the fact that the 2020 census was conducted unfairly and incorrectly in my opinion because of the person sitting as president.
If you follow some blogs, creators on TikTok, YouTube, Facebook or IG you may discover clown school has had a high enrollment since the pandemic. THEEDUCATEDTROPHYWIFE is here to inform the culture they’ve been hiding! Ha! Now with cameras everywhere, phones, computers and nosy bystanders, clowns are being shown in the worst way. Everyone’s a king or queen these days.