Is Your Crown Loving A Clown?
Choosing a partner, love or spouse requires you to have the ability to see what you getting into. After having children it’s hard to separate your reality of eternal attachment. Take a moment to exam your self awareness and straighten your crown, you cannot readjust a clown.
Sabrina Michelle
4/9/20262 min read
Full Disclaimer: The four paragraphs below were written 6-13-2018 during a time I was in a weird but free mindset. Becoming educated involves far more than books, lectures, and higher education; one must immerse themselves into the dirtiest of knowledge. This Black woman flipped “trophy wife” and then added “educated” for these educational moments! Bringing a perspective from experience lived through shared pain and witnessed in real-time.
“You can’t put a crown on a clown and expect a KING!” - Unknown. I find it funny that I heard this quote because I just could not find the right words for these types of humans. The Educated Trophy Wife takes pride in not verbally putting down anyone; there’s no growth in such negativity. By having strong figures in my life, I was taught neutrality.
Most humans detest parents that neglect their children because their neglect spills into our communities by way of disrespect, anger, hate, violent behavior, bullying, destruction, criminal activity, and just a messy situation. Now, not all children take part in these types of acts. If they are blessed, the present parent’s unwavering strength and love can pull them through.
We all know of the relative or a story of a single parent carrying the load and having great children. But at what cost? The Educated Trophy Wife blogged about my father on 2/27/18 titled, I Love Daddy. It gives a glimpse into my relationship with my father from prison. Nothing and no one changed my reality. Children NEED their fathers!
“See kings lose crowns, but teachers stay intelligent” - K.R.S.-ONE. Parents are the first teachers in a child’s life; there’s no financial cost in that. Are you mad that you put a crown on a clown (female or male)? Well.... Please get over it! Ha! Give fathers their RIGHT to teach their children! No one should alter a child’s view of their fathers.
Today the world is much different in a short period of time. We now have more social media distractions, satire, exposure, greed, objectifying behaviors, bullying, mistreatment, and less reading. From my observations, I’m seeing more division than ever between people, especially on social media. Because of this, the clowns are coming out of the clown car in hundreds at a time. Mothers and fathers are being transparent about the lack of knowledge before deciding to become parents.
This choice may be costly not only to the child but to the parent as well. Over the last century in the Black community, which is about 14% of the United States population, the family structure has been broken by several factors: economic inequality, racism, imprisonment, violence, lack of education, and opportunities; all contribute to the fractured Black family structure. None of this is listed in this article.
Information may be incorrect based on the fact that the 2020 census was conducted unfairly and incorrectly, in my opinion, because of the person sitting as president.
If you follow some blogs, creators on TikTok, YouTube, Facebook, or Instagram, you may discover that clown school has had a high enrollment since the pandemic. The Educated Trophy Wife is here to inform the culture they’ve been hiding! Ha! Now with cameras everywhere, phones, computers, and nosy bystanders, clowns are being shown in the worst way. Everyone is a king or queen these days.
Educating the children is how you elevate them above clown behavior as well as nurturing them.